Happiness is a Choice
Many years ago I had a poster hanging over my bed that said: “What do you choose today? Happiness or misery? It was taken from a famous Sufi master called Abdullah that used to laugh all the time, even on his death bed. When asked by his disciples how does he do it, he said: “every morning, as I wake up, I ask myself – Abdullah what do you choose Happiness or misery? And I laugh�.
Once I heard that story I decided I can do that also and in order to remember it I made that poster over my bed, so it would be the first thing I’ll see in the morning.
I was reminded of it when a friend sent me the following story:
“A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed each morning by eight o’clock, with his hair fashionably coiffed and shaved perfectly, even though he is legally blind, moved to a nursing home today. His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary. After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready.
As he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been hung on his window.
“I love it,” he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having just been presented with a new puppy.
“Mr. Jones, you haven’t seen the room; just wait.”
“That doesn’t have anything to do with it,” he replied. “Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my room or not doesn’t depend on how the furniture is arranged.. it’s how I arrange my mind.
I already decided to love it.
“It’s a decision I make every morning when I wake up. I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed and be thankful for the ones that do.
Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open, I’ll focus on the new day and all the happy memories I’ve stored away. Just for this time in my life. Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you’ve put in. So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank account of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank. I am still depositing.”
So learning from that old (actually young) man, remember the five simple rules to be happy:
1. Free your heart from hatred .
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect miracles.
What are you going to put into your Memory bank today?
Have a great day!
